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This is similar to a mutual friend formally introducing two people that don't know each other. The conversation might look something like this:
- Mutual friend, gesturing toward person B says, "Person A, this is person B."
- B waves at A and might say hello.
- Mutual friend, gesturing towards A, says, "Person B, this is person A.
- A greets B with a wave or hello (or a how are you?).
This simple social ritual illustrates a small exchange between A & B facilitated by a mutual friend. In our case, ritual is the mutual friend that introduces us to any Spirit and in turn introduces Spirits to us.
Notice there is a structure to the example. The structure is decided beforehand (by conventional social rules), and it is used to formally establish a connection between A and B.
Animistic polytheist ritual does the same thing. Through formally making offerings and speaking prayers of praise to a Spirit, we introduce ourselves to them. By allowing ourselves to open up to the Spirit with Whom we are establishing a relationship (within an established ritual structure--ways of doing this include sitting in quiet meditation and taking an omen with a divination tool), we give Them space to introduce Themselves to us.
Once a working relationship has been firmly established, elements of that ritual structure can fall away until only the core pieces remain (for maintaining relationship with a given Spirit).
I have a full ritual structure that I use for more formal occasions (and that I plan to use for the Wheel of the Year holidays this year), but if I am just doing a devotional, I strip the structure way down to what I feel are the most important parts.
My devotional structure looks like this:
- Light candle for the Spirit I am honoring.
- Speak words of praise, gratitude, and sometimes petitions.
- Make an offering.
- Repeat steps 1-3 for each Spirit I want to honor.
- Take an omen for blessings from the honored Spirits collectively by shuffling a tarot deck and drawing a card.
- Read the card's interpretation from the guidebook.
- Thank all Spirits and let incense offerings (if any) burn out before snuffing candles.
Keep in mind that I only use this looser structure after I have already firmly established a relationship with a given Spirit. If there is a Spirit that you are interested in honoring (that has not contacted you first), formally introduce yourself before diving deeper into Their worship.
Remember--sometimes it takes time. In my case, it generally takes several years to establish a working relationship with a Spirit, especially if that Spirit is reluctant. I've been honoring Freyja for several years, but I still have a hard time connecting to Her. On the other hand, I only really started honoring Brighid in 2020, and I have a very strong connection to Her. The specific Spirit you are trying to connect with sets the pace.
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